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Evie Abat's avatar

I absolutely loved this answer. I had to go through a lot of toads—and some of them were lovely toads, sexy toads, meh toads, toxic toads lol—before I found the one who was the prince. But through all that toad-kissing, I learned a lot about myself—likes, dislikes, non-negotiables, what messes I needed to clean up…how I can be a little toady lol—and how to really enjoy being in a relationship with myself. Then the perfect guy for me came along, easy peasy. No effort. And he was someone I never would have picked before dating myself, ya know? Love you, Jeauni

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Jeauni Cassanova's avatar

I love this! This is exactly the point. Sometimes shopping around isn't a bad thing even and we should never accept a shoe that doesn't fit – that's how we end up with BLISTERS. I love your analogy of the toads and how we can be a little toady too – hehehe. I think we're all much happier in the end to have left many of the toads we thought should be forever. Big kisses, Evie! Love you!

With Love,

Jeauni

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Dr. Gladys Ato's avatar

Jeauni, you're amazing. This article brilliantly weaves in the importance of never losing faith in what we desire, honoring our experiences for what they are, and asking those oh so important questions to make sure we do our due diligence before diving all in. And, LOVE. Nothing in life should diminish it. Thank you!

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Jeauni Cassanova's avatar

Oh My Goodness, thank you for such kind words! It's so important to take the time to see where we're truly pouring ourselves into. Sometimes, we'll choose wisely and other times...not so much. BUT we can honor every single choice and this is what will shape us to be ready for that GREAT LOVE. Thank you for reading! Big kisses!

With Love,

Jeauni

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Dr. Gladys Ato's avatar

So ready for that GREAT LOVE and so grateful to you for reinstalling the reminder in me that it is still possible! ♥️🌹🙏🏽

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